Yeah I miss youAnd I wish you were hereI feel the beating of your heartI see the shadows of your faceJust know that wherever you areYeah, I miss youAnd I wish you were hereFrom where you are: Lifehouse
"These (face) lines are getting deeper, but when I tell you what's happened to me - these lines are just about living."Jeniffer Aniston
Of all these times, I'd always admire this one Hollywood actress - Jeniffer Aniston. I knew her through my all times fav, Sitcom FRIENDS, where Aniston played Rachel. I love her in the sitcom, I love Rachel and yes I love Jen too.
It's not because she's blonde,sexy and beautiful. But by the way she handled her problem; a marriage break-down, a cheating husband and other controversial issues surround.
She can choose to be frantic, hysterical about everything that fall upon her. Yet, she chose to stay calm and settle everything quietly and moved on with her life. She became a successful actress despite all the chaos that she faced in life.
Not everyone can be inspired through their hardship and sorrow. But she did and she already proved it. Well, I guessed she's one hell tough cookie and I'd really hope that I can be that too.
I am a person who have a very short temper. Lately my patience was wearing thin and I was trying really hard to hold my anger.
When someone mocked me, disgraced my honour, spread Fitnah, I was really upset. My body was shaking and I almost did something that I'll ever regret. But then I remembered those stories of Rasulullah. His patience through out the rough period; the death of Khadeeja and the rejection of the people of Taif.
Rasulullah is the best example to follow, as many said. Thus, I shall not reflect the same attitudes as those people did. As I am not them, I am me.
So, here I am. Jotting down all those painful feelings in the most positive ways. As Allah promises to reward to those who's patient and kind.
"And Allah Loves those who are firm and steadfast."Ali Imran: 146
The strongest person is the one who can hold his anger, true indeed.